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People tend to be creatures of habit. The longer we live in situations, the less able we are to see them from an outsider’s perspective, and this can be especially true of our homes.
One day, an appliance needs an emergency repair or an unexpected guest knocks on our door, and we suddenly realize we’ve been completely clutter blind.
For years, I knew I had clutter, but I was also able to function in my home without really seeing how bad things had gotten. Piles of paper stacked in corners or laundry draped over chairs just became background noise. Clutter had become my norm.
If you’ve ever experienced that horrible stomach-dropping feeling of being embarrassed by all the stuff around your house, you might be clutter blind. Here are some signs to look for…
High Tolerance for Piles
If you can walk around piles of dirty clothes until you have nothing clean left to wear or live with a sink overflowing with dirty dishes until you have nothing clean left to eat from, you’re probably clutter blind.
Clutter blindness is basically the ability to function so well surrounded by clutter that you practically don’t even see it anymore. You know it’s there, but it can sit and sit and sit without being dealt with.
I don’t think clutter blindness necessarily means the clutter doesn’t bother someone; it’s simply that they’ve grown so used to it that there’s no real urgency in cleaning it up. It starts to blend in with your home, and you don’t really see it anymore so, instead of clearing your kitchen counter, you push everything over to prep your meals. Instead of putting books on a shelf or sorting mail, you create piles to be dealt with later. Instead of unpacking a suitcase from your most recent trip (that may not have been “recent” at all), you shove it just out of the way enough that it doesn’t really affect your day to day life. That’s clutter blindness.
Home isn’t a Haven
If you feel burdened or embarrassed by your home and belongings, you’ve probably been clutter blind.
Instead of feeling happy and at peace because you’re in a place where you can relax and enjoy yourself, your home has evolved into a never-ending to-do list that constantly nags you. Looking around your home just reminds you of everything you should be doing and how your home should look. It’s stressful and unpleasant, the exact opposite of what your home should be.
Nothing has a Home
One huge reason for clutter blindness is having a lot of items but few, if any, homes for those things. When someone asks, “Where does this go?” your answer could basically be, “No idea” or “Your guess is as good as mine!”
This is an issue I used to have with my kids. I’d say, “Put this away,” but they had no idea where anything belonged. Worst of all, I didn’t either.
Photography Shock
One great way to identify if you’re clutter blind without waiting for an emergency repair or surprise visitor is to take pictures of your home.
I realized I was clutter blind when I took pictures inside my home and saw the clutter staring back at me in the photograph. Something about being slightly removed from the situation and looking at it in a picture made me realize we had a lot more around our house than I had been noticing.
Looking at a picture can help shock you out of your clutter blindness. This is exactly why I encourage the people I help to take pictures of their homes before they start decluttering and again after. It’s great to see how much progress you’ve made when you’re finished decluttering a space, and pictures can make those out-of-place things a little easier to spot.
What to do if you’ve been clutter blind
I know how overwhelming it can be to look around your home and see nothing but an unending list of things to do. I know how frustrating and exhausting it can be to feel like everything in your home is out of place and you don’t even know where to start to get things cleaned up and in order.
That’s exactly why I started the Clutter-Free Club where I share specific daily tasks so you never have to wonder what to do, fun challenges to keep you motivated and making progress, and an entire library of video and printable resources so you’re always guided on your journey. We also have a wonderful private community full of supportive and encouraging people who are on their own decluttering journeys as well as two live events every single month so you can get all of your questions answered and even join others for some live decluttering.
We’d love for you to join us! You can see everything that’s included in the Clutter-Free Club by clicking here.
You deserve a home you can enjoy, that feels peaceful, comfortable, and supportive of the life you really want to live, and I want to help you get there, one task and day at a time.
Natalie
Omg, I opened the email to this post and immediately looked around my living room. From my desk, I can see SEVERAL piles. Yikes, this article has arrived at just the right time: my office is closed today due to severe weather, so I have a 4 day weekend that will be partially devoted to decluttering my home. Thanks for sharing!
Emily
I’m so glad to hear it arrived at the right time! It can be surprising when you finally see what’s been surrounding you when those clutter blinders come off. Stay safe in that weather, and I hope you have a great long weekend.
Sheila McVicar
Paperwork is my clutter blindness. No matter what system I have in place, piles often require a name, like Mount Molehill-Expanded. Eventually, these are dealt with at year end and much of the paper is assigned a seat at a specific file or the Shredder! Tires me out to look at it, though.
So, we sold the house, and most of our belongings, rented a storage locker, and moved what we now own (about 10% of what we had) close to where my son and family live. We then donated our car to charity, spent time with son and family, saw the relatives, then booked seats on a flight to Australia (from Canada). We have been here 10 months. Love the travel, seeing new things, meeting so many wonderful people!
Emily
Paperwork can be such a struggle because it’s neverending! I’m amazed that you got rid of 90% of your belongings. How did you part with so much?! That’s amazing!
Tove Maren
I love this term “clutter blind” – and you are right – taking a picture inside your house will reveal the laundry that has piled up, the three boxes of wipes on the floor and the piles of papers. Great post.
Emily
Thanks, Tove! Yes, it’s almost as traumatic as taking pictures of myself. “I’ve gained how much weight?!” lol
Donna @ Modern on Monticello
Great article and really makes you rethink your spaces. I will be sure to check out one of the webinars. Thanks for sharing.
Emily
Thanks for visiting, Donna!
Karen Smith
The way to prevent clutter is to clean n put things away the moment is needed to be done cause 1 day turns into 2 and on n on. I have occ . I would simply lose my mind if things arent neat n nice i simply can’t focus in a messy place .
Stacey
Clutter blind is a perfect name for it. We don’t like clutter here at our house. Sometimes I visit someone or go to a store and can hardly breath! We all have our own comfort zone and we have to find it.
Thanks so much for sharing at Thoughts of Home on Thursday. We are thrilled to have you. Pinning. 🙂
Emily
Thanks, Stacey! Clutter can definitely be suffocating, and I’m sure it’s even more so when you’re not used to it. Thanks for sharing! 🙂
Diana Muller
I have decluttered but no pics….when this started I was out of town …then had relatives staying with us during Hurricane Matthew…..actually they have a decluttered house so they helped with clutter piles of paper and magazines… Anyway I’m back…..need to download forms……
Emily
Welcome back! I’m so glad to hear you’ve decluttered. Keep up the great work!
Judy
My house is so cluttered I have no idea where to start is why it stays like this…. I start and become so tearfully overwhelmed I could set to throwing it put the door or sticking a match to it…. I’m desperate…. With remodeling and falling and getting hurt really bad it just happened… Now can only do a little bit at a time then rest
Emily
I’m so sorry to hear that, Judy, and I can totally relate. It can be completely overwhelming! I frequently feel like I’m at a standstill in my own home. It can be hard to know where to start and how to make progress, but I do think baby steps and doing just a little bit at a time is the right way to go so it sounds like you’re on the right path!
Lissa
I’ve been a member of the Declutterathon FB group for quite some time but this email is especially timely! Although I generally keep most of the obvious clutter “under control,” I have to say that this email speaks volumes to me! Thank you so much! I really needed this right now! Can’t wait to see the challenge!
Emily
I’m so happy to hear that! Thanks, Lissa <3